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| 2g4 proud sammorian-former protocol prefect |
I learned to love someone with all my life, but there came a point when I got tired, not of LOVING but of SACRIFICING all that I have. Then a thought came to my mind... I have given everything but have received nothing but PAIN and TEARS in return. Was this enough to prove that I really love that person? Or was it a sign telling me to stop sacrificing and learn to love myself a little more? Indeed when it comes to love and RELATIONSHIPS, it's hard to know if you have the RIGHT one. Many PROMISES have been made, but still, lovers WEEP, and left in deep SORROW.
WHY? Because WORDS CAN'T IMMORTALIZE EMOTIONS!
Indeed, when someone becomes a part of us, letting go is a LOSS we feel. We naturally don't like CHANGE and we don't like to feel SAD or LOSS so we tend to SETTLE for what makes us feel BETTER, even if it's in a FAILING situation and in our rational minds we know we shouldn't. You have to be WILLING to experience the loss and LET GO. You have to decide that you want more for yourself and when you have, that's when you begin to HEAL and time will do the rest.
All of us (human beings) want the same thing: to be loved and accepted and become happy. But while listening to the spiritual songs from any religious or spiritual path, we can always hear and sense the same soul-desire to stay connected with the source of creation, with the pure endless love. For us to be able to give and receive unconditional love, we have to LOVE OURSELVES WITH ALL OUR HEART! Only when we love ourselves, can we truly love others freely without fear or border. When we feel love within ourselves, we are connected with everything and everybody and we feel REAL BLISS.
As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down probably will. You'll have your HEART BROKEN and you'll break others' hearts. You'll FIGHT with your best friend or maybe even FALL IN LOVE with them and you'll CRY because time is flying by. So LOVE YOURSELF MORE by taking too many pictures, laughing too often, forgiving freely, and LOVING like you've never been HURT. After all, life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, and no second chances. So you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they MEAN to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, COMFORT a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, SMILE UNTIL YOUR FACE HURTS.! My point is, life is too short to wake up in the morning with REGRETS, so LOVE the people who treat you RIGHT, forget about the ones who don't; KISS the KISSERS, love the LOVERS, play the PLAYERS; FUCK the FUCKERS, and believe that everything happens for a REASON. Know a GOOD thing when you see it, and don't let it SLIP AWAY. If you get a CHANCE, take it. If it CHANGES your life, let it. Nobody said it would be EASY, they just said it would be WORTH it.
Know that you do not need to LOVE or be LOVED at the COST OF YOURSELF. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in YOUR life is the relationship you have with YOURSELF. Of all the people you will know and encounter in your lifetime, YOU are the only one you will never LOSE so don't lose yourself because of an UNREQUITED LOVE.
So don't ever rush into falling in love, for love never runs out. Even if they mock you because you are single, just tell them this: "God is just busy writing the best love story that will sweep me off my feet!" If you find yourself in love with someone else who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just did not choose to rest in the other person's heart. Let it go. There's a reason and a meaning. You will know in time
Always remember that sometimes we have to ignore how we FEEL and realize what we DESERVE
the note above was written by Gilly (2g4 protocol prefect)
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